Hello :) sorry I've been neglecting lately I have 3 very demanding little monkies at home which is why I have decided to start a new discussion...
Madaline Maccan! The beautiful little girl that went missing in 2007. This is a very sensitive subject for a lot of people and as a mother I can no imagine what her poor parents and siblings went through and are still going through.
To lose a partner there is a name for this your a widow/er to lose parents you are an orphan but to lose your child there is no name for this loss, not that labelling this loss will make this tragic pain any easier. I have suffered a miscarriage the same year actually that Maddy went missing I was 11 weeks pregnant and it broke my heart. I was in absolute bits , I cried everyday and every night for months and still now I suffer and wonder what if.
To have a child put in your arms and to nurse that child is the most precious gift in the world their life in your hands their health and their safety down to you.
For the parents of Madaline maccan or any other parent who has lost their baby or child of any age I can't even begin to imagine what this feels like. The love you have for your babies is like no other you will experience in your whole life it's passionate and unconditional and painful at times it never goes away, even when you no longer cradle your baby in your arms all you want to do is protect them and when something bad happens you Blame yourself , I know because I've felt this blame.
I really believe and hold strong beliefs that maddy is out there somewhere I just hope for her parents and any other grieving parent she is being loved the way all of our babies deserve.
Feel free to comment <3